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Before You Use AI for Dating: What You Need to Know
AI is changing the way we meet, match and communicate in dating, but some truths remain timeless. In this post, I explore what AI can and cannot do, how traditional research still matters and the single most valuable dating tip that's got nothing to do with AI.
1 day ago6 min read


5 Top Long-Distance Relationship Tips: It Can Work If You Both Want It
Long-distance relationships don’t fail because of distance. They fail because of misalignment, unmet needs and unspoken expectations. When you communicate openly, accept the reality and create a shared vision together, love can thrive across any distance.
Dec 6, 20257 min read


3 Ways Your Past Shapes Your Approach to Love
Learn how attachment styles, childhood experiences and past relationships shape the way you love and make choices in dating.
Nov 17, 20256 min read


Why Choose a Personal Matchmaker over Online Dating?
In a world dominated by swipe culture and endless scrolling, finding genuine connection can feel exhausting. If you're over 45 and seeking something more meaningful than another dating app, there's a better way.
Oct 27, 20254 min read


Unhealthy Relationship Patterns: Why You Have Them (and How to Break Free)
Why do you keep falling for the wrong person? Why do relationships end when they seem perfect? Why is your partner refusing to commit? The truth is, none of it is random.
In this article, we explore why you repeat relationship patterns, how unconscious preferences guide your choices, and what you can do to break the negative cycle.
Sep 15, 20254 min read


First Date Psychology and Tips: What Really Matters
We’ve all heard the phrase “Don’t judge a book by its cover.” It’s a noble ideal, yet difficult to follow. Our brains are hardwired to make snap judgments. Cognitive biases - like confirmation bias and beauty bias - play a powerful role in shaping our perceptions of others. Keep reading to discover science based first date tips.
Sep 5, 20256 min read


How Parents’ Relationships Impact Their Children’s Future Relationships
Have you ever considered that your romantic relationships affect more than just you and your partner? They also shape your child’s future relationships. From the way you handle conflict to how you express love, your actions set the blueprint for their understanding of relationships. Learn how to model healthy habits and break cycles of unhealthy patterns.
Aug 13, 20255 min read


Is Love Better the Second Time? Tips for Dating and Remarriage Success
It's encouraging how much research is dedicated to personal relationships, including love, dating, marriage, break-ups and dating after divorce. On paper, these may sound like cold, impersonal terms, but behind them lie our deepest joy and grief, heartache, dreams, tears, hope and sleepless nights...
If you’ve decided to give love another shot, whether you're dating again or taking a new relationship to the next level, there are several things to keep in mind.
Jul 15, 20255 min read


Benefits of Relationship & Dating Coaching for Men and Women
It's been long established that successful relationships don’t just happen - they’re built with intention. Relationship and dating coaching helps both men and women overcome past patterns, build confidence, and create meaningful connections. With a structured, personalised approach, coaching offers the tools and mindset shifts needed for lasting love.
Jul 8, 20254 min read


Why Being Real Is the 2025 Dating Trend
I must live a sheltered life - I didn’t even know “being real” was an online trend! That said, I was delighted to be approached by Yahoo!Style to contribute to an article on how people in their 40s and 50s are leading the way in real, grounded dating. Click to read about my insights and personal experiences.
Jun 25, 20254 min read


10 Essential Colour and Style Tips Every Man Should Know
In celebration of Father’s Day, enjoy this guest blog by Linda Sujeewon – Sustainable Stylist and expert in colour analysis and personal style - sharing timeless style wisdom for men.
Jun 9, 20256 min read


The Real Reason She Kept Attracting the Wrong Men - and How She Stopped Settling
Read Emma's story: what finally set her free, and how she learned to attract love on her terms...
May 12, 20255 min read


Dating After Divorce Nearly Broke Him - Until He Discovered This
He spent 25 years married - then faced the truth about his relationship patterns. From lost to aligned in love: Richard’s journey through the course which changed everything.
May 1, 20255 min read


Should You Google Your Date? 5 Expert Tips for Smarter Vetting, Online & Offline
How well do you know people you're dating? Is it acceptable to Google them? How much information is too much? Read on to find out!
Mar 31, 20254 min read


Singles' Night: Looking for Love and Connections in Real Life
Last week, I co-hosted a local Singles’ Social live event. What does the post-mortem tell us?
Mar 5, 20254 min read


Are You Dreading Valentine’s Day? Discover 5 Coping Tips!
If the thought of Valentine's Day is filling you with dread, read this blog to discover coping strategies and re-focus your mind.
Jan 29, 20254 min read


January Reflections: Unhappy Relationships & Serial Monogamy
As you might know, the first week in January is the time when divorce solicitors and marriage counsellors see a peak in enquiries.
Jan 8, 20253 min read


How Do I Balance My Career and Relationship with My Life Partner?
People often have very different approaches towards work and career leading to tension in a relationship. These 3 tips will help you...
Dec 13, 20244 min read


5 Tips to Help You Cope with Christmas if You're Single, Divorced or Separated
Try these 5 proven tips to help you cope with the pressure of Christmas following a divorce or a separation...
Dec 5, 20245 min read


When Love and Work Collide: The Highs and Lows of Office Romance
Who hasn’t? Most of us experienced office romance or at least flirtation at some point during their working lives...
Dec 4, 20244 min read
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